Matthew 7:12 So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.

This principle that Jesus laid down for his followers is often referred to as ‘the golden rule’. I have no idea whose idea it was to call it that, but indeed, it is that. If everyone lived by it there would be far less chaos in our world.

I want to make it a bit more personal today though and address those who in one way or another have responsibility for young lives, children, pre-teens, teens and young people in general. In what capacity do you serve and how do these young people view you?  Do they know that you are a Christian and how does your conduct towards them measure up to their expectations? Are you sensitive to their individual circumstances, do you encourage them? Do you listen to them? Do you love them and let them know that they are of value in God’s eyes? If not, are you instead vindictive and unforgiving? Do you abuse them verbally, physically or sexually? Ouch! I just had to go there.

A great deal of finger pointing has been done lately at people in religious institutions who failed in their responsibilities to their young charges. Many victims admit that they have been deeply scarred by negative experiences. If we hope to represent Christ to the young and impressionable, the golden rule takes on particular significance. I still remember the married Sunday School superintendent who was way too ‘touchy-feely’ and the high school teacher whose offer of a ride to the bus stop half a mile away came with great expectations of more than a mere “thank you”. Female leaders are not excluded in this. Are you a good role model for the youth over whom you have influence? Can they trust you?

A young person today is more likely to be reading your life than reading the Bible. You are God’s Power Point presentation. So here comes the injunction often attributed to St. Francis of Asisi: “Preach the gospel at all times, and if necessary use words.” Do to the young only those things you would want to be done to you or your children.  Jesus put it very bluntly “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” (Matthew 19:14).